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ADHD or OCD? When Overcompensating Looks Like Obsessing

  • Writer: Dr. Tilbe Ambrose
    Dr. Tilbe Ambrose
  • Jul 2
  • 3 min read

Updated: Aug 13

(And Why a Proper ADHD Assessment in San Diego Can Set the Record Straight)


by Dr. Tilbe Ambrose

Person Suffering From Depression

Let’s say you color-code your calendar, double-check that the stove is off three times before leaving the house, and get really anxious when things feel out of order.

Is that OCD? Maybe. But sometimes, it’s actually ADHD in disguise.


Welcome to the blurry (and often misunderstood) line between ADHD and OCD—two very different conditions that can look weirdly similar. If you’re trying to figure out what’s really going on, a detailed psychological evaluation in San Diego can help you finally get clarity.


ADHD and OCD: Why People Confuse Them


At first glance, ADHD and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) seem like opposites:


  • ADHD is known for distractibility, impulsivity, and disorganization.

  • OCD is known for rigid routines, over-organization, and perfectionism.

So how are these two conditions often confused? It’s all about the why behind the behavior.



The ADHD Brain: Chaos and Coping Strategies


People with ADHD often struggle with executive functioning—things like time management, task initiation, memory, and organization. In response, many ADHDers develop coping strategies that look like OCD behaviors. For example:

  • Creating highly structured schedules

  • Rechecking tasks to avoid mistakes

  • Over-organizing their environment

  • Getting anxious if routines are broken

But here’s the catch: these behaviors aren’t driven by true obsessions or compulsions—they’re driven by a desperate need to stay afloat in a chaotic world. It's compensation, not compulsion.


In ADHD, those behaviors are practical (and often exhausting) attempts to maintain control.



The OCD Brain: Obsessions and Compulsions on Repeat


OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder) is an anxiety disorder that involves:


  • Obsessions – Unwanted, intrusive thoughts or fears (e.g., fear of contamination, harm, or disorder)

  • Compulsions – Repetitive behaviors done to reduce the anxiety caused by those thoughts (e.g., excessive cleaning, checking, counting)

The behaviors are not optional. They're performed to relieve intense mental distress, and skipping them can cause overwhelming anxiety or panic.


In OCD, it’s not about being organized—it’s about reducing obsessive anxiety.



Why It Matters to Know the Difference


Because ADHD coping strategies can mimic OCD symptoms (and vice versa), it’s easy to misunderstand what’s really happening. But here's the deal:


  • Treating OCD as ADHD might mean giving stimulant medication to someone who needs anxiety-focused therapy.

  • Treating ADHD as OCD might mean focusing on anxiety management when the real issue is executive functioning and attention regulation.

Each condition requires very different treatments. That’s why a proper ADHD assessment in San Diego is so important—it helps you get the right support for your brain.



What a Psychological Evaluation Can Reveal


At Restore Psychology, our comprehensive psychological evaluations in San Diego include:


  • In-depth clinical interviews

  • Validated psychological and neuropsychological tests

  • Behavior and symptom rating scales

  • Review of developmental, academic, and social history

  • Screening for multiple conditions, including ADHD, OCD, anxiety, depression, and more

We're not just checking boxes—we’re looking at the whole picture to figure out what’s really going on.



A Word About Medication (and Why You Shouldn't DIY the Diagnosis)


Stimulant medications (like Adderall or Vyvanse) can work wonders for ADHD brains—but they can also worsen anxiety in people who don’t have ADHD. Misdiagnosing ADHD when it’s really OCD (or anxiety) could lead to increased distress, insomnia, or obsessive behaviors getting worse.


That’s why an accurate diagnosis matters so much. ADHD is a neurological disorder, and treating it safely and effectively starts with knowing for sure that it’s actually what you’re dealing with.



Looking for ADHD Testing in San Diego?


We get it—trying to untangle ADHD from OCD (or anxiety, or perfectionism, or burnout) is hard. That’s why at Restore Psychology, we offer thorough, compassionate ADHD testing in San Diego that helps you figure out what’s really going on.

Clarity starts here.


Schedule your ADHD assessment today.


 
 
 

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